Traveling solo is amazing. Until it’s Friday night, you are in a beautiful city, and you have nobody to talk to.
Loneliness is the silent killer of travels. Here is How to Handle Loneliness as a Solo Traveler.
1. Be a “Regular”
Go to the same cafe every morning. Go to the same gym. The staff will start to recognize you. ” The usual?” creates a sense of belonging.
2. Call Home (But Not Too Much)
Schedule a weekly call with mom or your best friend. It grounds you. But don’t stay on the phone all day, or you will never meet new people.
3. Join Guided Tours
Sign up for a “Food Tour” or a “Street Art Walking Tour.” You will be in a group of other tourists who are also looking for friends. It is an easy, low-pressure way to socialize.
4. Embrace Solitude
There is a difference between being lonely and being alone. Learn to enjoy your own company. Take yourself on a date. Read a book in a park. Realize that you don’t need other people to validate your experience.
Kiran’s Take: The “Hostel Bar” Trick
Even if you are staying in a hotel, go to a hostel bar in the evening. They are usually open to the public. Buy a beer. Sit at the bar. Someone will talk to you within 5 minutes. Guaranteed.
Conclusion
Loneliness is temporary. It passes. Usually, right before you meet the coolest person of your trip. Hang in there.
Want to meet people? Read Networking Guide.
